7 Truth You Need To Know Before it’s Too Late

1. You should either have a supportive partner or no partner. There's no third option.

2. If someone can't tell you their flaws they have a dangerous lack of self-awareness.

3. The best revenge is getting yourself to a place where you no longer care about revenge.

4. Just because a relationship has lasted a long time doesn't mean it's working.

5. Self-love comes from self-control. You'll never respect yourself if you're a slave to people-pleasing and external.

6. Don't let your time and energy leak from social media, overthinking, and meaningless relationships.

7. If you always think your happiness is someone where else, it'll never be where you are.

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Man arrested for k33ling his mother, grandma, sister and her son

Police operatives in Enugu State have arrested a young man in connection with the m+rder of his mother, grandma, sister and her son.

The suspect, identified simply as Anaegbuachara, was said to have k33led the deceased for money rit+al.

It was gathered that the suspect is from Amaeze community in Nsukka Local Government Area of Enugu State.

According to the suspect, his friend, ‘Morroco’ connected him to a
Kogi State native doctor, who resides in Nsukka, that instructed him to po++on and sacrifice his mother.

However, lucky ran out on the suspect as his grandma, sister and her two children visited his mother and ate the po++oned food together.

One of his sister’s son survived and was rushed to the hospital.

Anaegbuachara has since been paraded around the community by his kinsmen. He was also compelled by the community members to kneel beside his mother’s tomb and beg her for forgiveness.

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ASUU President raises alarm over rise in first-class graduates from private universities

The National President of the Academic Staff Union of Universities (ASUU), Professor Emmanuel Osodeke, has criticised the rising number of first-class degrees awarded by private universities in Nigeria, describing it as a troubling trend.

Speaking at an event held on DELSU campus, Abraka, Delta State, Osodeke warned that public universities might be tempted to adopt similar practices, potentially compromising academic integrity without proper regulation.

He also lamented the decline in foundational education quality, blaming primary and secondary schools for producing students with top grades but insufficient knowledge.

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Only 3 Out Of 21 LGAs In Anambra Open Defecation-Free - UNICEF

The United Nations Children’s Fund (UNICEF) has disclosed that only three out of the 21 local government areas (LGAs) in Anambra State are free from open defecation.

The LGAs—Aguata, Anambra East, and Nnewi North—hold this distinction, with Aguata and Anambra East classified as semi-urban, while Nnewi North is urban.

However, investigations reveal that open defecation remains a significant challenge in areas such as Onitsha South (Upper Iweka axis), Ogbaru (Okpoko and surrounding communities), Anambra West, Ayamelum, and Awka North.

During a media briefing to mark World Toilet Day, UNICEF’s Water, Sanitation, and Hygiene (WASH) specialist at the Enugu Field Office, Mrs. Rebecca Gabriel, emphasized that the three ODF-certified LGAs risk losing their status if they fail to maintain required standards. Conversely, she noted that other LGAs could achieve ODF certification with dedicated efforts.

Gabriel outlined the criteria for safe toilet facilities, which include proper containment, evacuation systems, and facilities for treating waste.

A study by UNICEF revealed that 3% of the population in Anambra still practices open defecation, making it the second-highest rate among the five South-East states under the Enugu Field Office. Abia State recorded the lowest rate at 2%.

Dr. Olusoji Akinleye, Officer in Charge of UNICEF Field Office, Enugu, described open defecation as a significant challenge undermining health, education, and community well-being.

Toilets are central to our lives—they represent peace, protection, and health. When toilets are inadequate or broken, pollution spreads, leading to deadly diseases,” Akinleye stated.

UNICEF highlighted funding shortfalls as a barrier to progress. While an annual investment of ₦168 billion is needed nationwide to achieve ODF status, only ₦15 billion was allocated between 2018 and 2022.

Other challenges include limited private sector participation, inconsistent public awareness campaigns, and insufficient engagement of religious and traditional leaders in promoting hygiene practices.

UNICEF called for increased government commitment, private sector involvement, and active community engagement to tackle open defecation and ensure healthier communities.

**"3 Things I Admit I Did Wrong in My Last Marriage" - Toke Makinwa Opens Up in Recent Interview**

Toke Makinwa, a well-known Nigerian media personality, has candidly shared her reflections on her previous marriage. In a recent interview, she discussed the lessons she's learned, her journey of self-discovery, and the personal growth she’s experienced since the divorce.

Toke acknowledged her mistakes in the past relationship, emphasizing the importance of prioritizing individual happiness and self-awareness. She also highlighted the significance of therapy and the need to focus on one’s well-being before entering a partnership.

In her own words:

"My ex and I are good friends now—good-ish, I mean. We're not enemies. And it took therapy for me to admit what I'm about to share with you. I also don’t know who he married; that girl and I are two completely different people. In my 20s, I was struggling with my identity and didn't know what I wanted from my career. Expecting one person to be responsible for your happiness is the worst disservice you can do to yourself. I let myself down by placing that responsibility solely on him, and I honestly don’t know how he managed. He was probably trying to figure out his own life, while here I was, clinging to him, expecting everything from him.

I don’t know if it’s the movies that taught us this notion that a relationship should always lead to marriage, but I developed this idea that *this* was the one, and I had to be fully committed, thinking if it didn’t end in marriage, then it wasn’t worth it. That was a mistake. Therapy helped me realize that we just weren’t compatible. No one should feel like they hold the key to your happiness—your happiness is your own responsibility. I only realized this in my 30s.

Regarding the divorce, it’s a two-way street. No one goes through a divorce on their own. I admit, I never cooked him a meal during our marriage because I felt like he didn’t deserve it. I was filled with resentment, and I couldn’t bring myself to do something as simple as making a meal because I was too hurt.

Looking back, I shouldn’t have married him at all. Nobody deserves to be with someone who constantly brings up the past, who holds grudges and uses them as weapons. I salute him for staying with that version of me. That doesn’t excuse his faults, but it shows me that no one should have the power to define your happiness.

Finding success in my career, understanding my worth through God, and learning to prioritize myself was what helped me heal. So if I ever get married again, the person I marry will meet a completely different, whole version of me. I won’t let anyone tell me who I am—I’ve been figuring that out long before anyone came along."#mokwo#tokemakinwa

At my lowest, you picked me up,” Adetshina thanks Nigerians after Miss Universe feat

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Why marriage is a trap for men — Media Personality Nandi

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End Bad #Governance: Suspects intentionally fainted in #court to draw negative attention — IGP Egbetokun

Inspector-General of Police Kayode Egbetokun has claimed that six suspects who fainted in court before their arraignment on Friday, November 1, did so intentionally to draw negative attention.

However, he said that #medical help was given right away, highlighting the police’s dedication to the #welfare of those in custody.

In a statement on Friday, he said: “Today, an unexpected incident in court saw six of the suspects suddenly rush out and faint, drawing media attention in a deliberate and scripted manner to attract negative attention.

Medical aid was promptly provided to these individuals, demonstrating the #Police Force’s commitment to the welfare of those in its custody, irrespective of the allegations they face.

While committed to upholding justice, the #Nigeria Police Force remains sensitive to the rights of all individuals, including young persons. Under #Nigerian law, individuals who have reached the age of criminal responsibility are answerable for their actions, regardless of their age.

This principle aligns with global practices, where accountability is upheld for young individuals who commit serious offences. As seen in other jurisdictions, including the United Kingdom, age does not exempt individuals from facing legal consequences. However, each case is approached with empathy and in accordance with human rights standards.”

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